Scar Face????

I visited the Surgeon to more. Nothings wrong I just have to have weekly visits with him so my progress can be checked up upon and that week's care instructions can be administered. Doctor (who kind of, a lot, resembles Frodo from the lord of the rings, Curly dark hair, blue eyes, shortish, and slightly plump) said that it's not healed all the way yet, but looking better then expected. (Thanks everyone who has been praying and thinking etc. about me, I know it helps on some deep divine level.) He gave me the run down. Before it seemed all these futures whatevers where far away I had a few weeks to just go around with or without a bandage. But because of the fast rate I am healing things to a 90 degree turn from the doctors original words now a little over a week ago. First step I have two options I can have surgery next Monday and have skin graphs from behind my ears. Then wait for it to heal for about three days. Or wait 7-10 days and it should be almost healed just doing what we are doing in other words giant gobs of neosporm and gauze tapped over my nose virtually 24/7. I am not supposed to go to the barn, clean out my cat's little or guinea pig cage and wash my hands after handling something even slightly unsanitary. Like Rico. I can't run, jump on the trampoline, ski etc.... although as we have only about an inch of snow I don't see how I would anyhow, but... yeah. So stay quiet and inactive. At least I have my laptop, life if then secure.
Here's were it gets tricky though. After it heals I have to make a second decision. One the one hand I could leave my nose as it is a gaping nostril on one side exposing more of the inside of my nose then normally possible. On the other hand I could have surgery were they take a skin flap from my cheek next to my nose flip it over and have it modeled to my nose. I am assured it will never look exactly the same ad cheek tissue is not nose tissue, but it will be close. Additionally there will be a scar running down the right side of my face close to my nose. So big choice huh? What do you guys think? Scar face or gaping nostril. I am leaning toward scar face but please comment your opinion.
Lastly. Someone from our temple wrote to Swamiji asking why so many "bad" things have been having to the NVT volunteers. One left, one got cancer, one had to have back surgery, one's dad died, and then me with my nose. I don't know what the response was for the rest of that but he said to tell me that he had a horse accident as well and sometimes these just happen. So that made me feel all warm inside, I have something in common with SWAMIJI!!! (he had a compound fracture to his arm and had to have surgery on it, although that was a slightly different scenario cause he fell off the horse, but still.
OK please comment! Thanks.